THE STATUTE OF LIMITATIONS HAS EXPIRED ON MOST OF OUR CHILDHOOD TRAUMA

                                               

I may not have experienced trauma during my childhood but, I have heard a lot about childhood traumatic experiences that could be devastating enough to cut short the expectations and achievements of people thereby, limiting them towards achieving their goals.

Although, that should not be a benchmark for limitations in achievements rather, it should serve as a motivational step towards becoming a fulfilled and a better person in life, success stories of people like Oprah Winfrey who was abused and molested in her childhood should be a motivation towards becoming a better person.

In order words, the bad experiences and traumas of childhood should not limit one from achieving desired goals in life, people with childhood trauma should look on the bright side and endeavour to make the best out of their situation no matter how hard it may seem and be an inspiration to others in the same situation. 

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ONLY BAD THINGS HAPPEN QUICKLY

                                     

This is a famous quote by Gordon Livingston and looking at it from a similar perspective, bad things do happen quickly perhaps because they are unplanned, unforeseen, disregarded and unwanted.

Contrarily, good things on the other hand take longer time to happen because, we plan, want and work so hard to see them happen and when they do we develop a sense of satisfaction unlike the bad things that often surprise and make us unhappy.

Although, in as much as good things may take time to happen, they last longer, if not forever because, they are guided by a carefully mapped out plan, determination, perseverance and hard work and bad things cannot comprehend because, it does not possess these qualities.  After all, nobody will deliberately make an effort and work hard to ensure that bad things happen.

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BE BOLD AND MIGHTY FORCES WILL COME TO YOUR AID

                                     

When troubles and tribulations are coming your way, it is an indication that, you are special and perhaps being tested by God for a greater task ahead of you.  In addition, if you are a believer, it is very much possible that, God is preparing you for an everlasting happiness.

Often time, we may develop mixed feelings that, God may have abandoned us to suffer.  The truth is God will never allow His people to suffer in vain without a good plan for the future, which is a good reason to be bold in whatever you do in life.

However, God will never let you down, no matter the situation; He will always come to your aid one way or another through, people you may or may not know.  The people that come to your aid in times of trouble are sent by God and thus, represent the forces of the bold and mighty (God).

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IF NOT NOW, THEN WHEN?

                                    

There is a proverb that says “the journey of a thousand miles begins with a step”, as well as “a stitch in time saves nine”.  Yes we aspire and wish for the best things that life can offer and believe in fantasies that perhaps, may not be impossible to accomplish.

We often feel that, our wishes should be handed unto us on a silver platter.  Wake up and smell the curfew, it is high time we begin to act and work towards our dreams, fantasies and aspirations if we really want to achieve our heart desires.

Make the first step and start working for what you desire in life, there is no better time to make a step than now because, the earlier the better and faster our dreams can come to past and the rest of our days will be filled with joy and not regrets.

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WATCH THIS SPACE

                                         

Often times, we are confronted with difficult situations that, seems hard to cope with perhaps because, they are overwhelming, looks hard and sound hopeless when considering how to tackle the situation and come up with possible solutions.

Watch this space of difficult occurrences because, chances are that, things will soon turn around for good.  After all, anything that has a beginning will definitely have an end thus; anything that has a production date will have an expiry date as well.

Hence, certain things must happen to pave way for greater things to come through, your worries and difficulties indicates that, something good is about to happen because, the way to success is not as straight as you may think.

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