Thursday, 15 March 2012

WE ARE AFRAID OF THE WRONG THINGS

What is a wrong thing?  A wrong thing is something that is morally, academically, traditionally and personally unsuitable or bad.  Something is morally wrong when, it is not done according to the standards of good conduct, and moral has to do with the manner in which you do things that portrays your upbringing.  Something is religiously wrong when; it goes contrary to the teachings and believes of religion, it is traditionally wrong when, it goes against the custom and practices of a community.  The wrong and right of things therefore, depends on the understanding and beliefs of the individuals involved.



Often times, we become afraid of the wrong things because, we are afraid of failing, it scares us to take responsibilities of our actions.  We forget the fact that ,failing is a step towards making a positive change, the fear of failing stands in the way of new knowledge, this is because, you have to fail to know  how to do something right, than not trying at all for the fear of failing.



The above picture simply shows that what people say or think about somebody or something, often affect the way others perceive that thing, with the fear of making the wrong decision .The bride loves the groom enough to marry him, but she is scared she might have made a mistake because, people feel he is the wrong guy for her, the reverse may be the case, which means that the things we are afraid of most of the time may turn out to be the best decision ever.  It is not everything we think is bad that turn out bad, we often miss the ones that may turn out to favor us just because of the fear of failing.

           


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